The days of being a spiritual mentor in Meiman - Chapter 3488 Research on Cats and Dogs (36)

The topic of intimacy between two people is timeless because there is so much to discuss. It can be said that even if all the knowledge of psychology and sociology is exhausted, it may not be able to summarize every situation.

But a rule worth noting is that, even between two people, there is always a difference between strong and weak. If one person is strong, the other is weak. Either the east wind prevails over the west wind, or the west wind prevails over the east wind.

Although many people have long understood this rule and think they can be the stronger one between the two, in reality, no matter how many tricks they use, they are always the weaker one.

Whether searching on the Internet or reading some books about relationships, you can see that many people are teaching how to become the dominant party, because there are so many benefits to being the dominant party.

But in fact, these methods are not so easy to use. Some tricks and tricks, without the support of core strength, are nothing but rootless duckweed and will only make people laugh.

The key to a strong or weak relationship in a relationship actually lies in the ability to control one's emotions. To put it bluntly, the one who doesn't love enough always wins.

An emotional person can never be the dominant party in a relationship. The richer the emotions, the more they are suppressed.

On the contrary, the more detached and cold-blooded you are, the more you can take the initiative in emotional relationships.

If we delve deeper into the principle, we can sum it up in one sentence. Just like what the Unjust Superman controlled by Charles said, "standard of measurement" is a very important part.

Everyone has a scale in their heart. Your evaluation of someone determines your attitude towards him.

If a person is annoying to you, but you can benefit from him, then maybe you can greet him with a smile. If a person has no conflict of interest with you, but you just like to get along with him, you can also face him with a happy mood.

If you show it too obviously, people will draw conclusions from it. Whether you like a certain type of person, whether I am the type of person you like, and what I should do to make you like or dislike me, these are all answers that can be obtained through observation.

However, some people are not like this. They will deliberately hide their own standards for judging others.

He seems to be smiling at some people, but silently damaging their interests; he seems to be indifferent to some people, but he is always supporting them secretly.

It sounds like a mental illness, as if the left brain and the right brain are in conflict, and the left hand and the right hand are fighting.

But this is not the case in many cases. They do this so that others cannot see through them and know their likes and dislikes.

Everyone likes to be flattered, so what’s the point of doing this?

In fact, this allows a person to always take the initiative in the emotional relationship between two people.

Because you don't know what his criteria are, you don't know what position you hold in his heart. In order to find out the criteria and verify your position, you will conduct repeated experiments.

The less you understand, the more curious you become. Curiosity kills the cat.

They hide their own standards, which is essentially to attract attention, so that people will actively explore him and pay attention to him in order to achieve the purpose of manipulating others.

In a simple emotional relationship, you can choose not to understand it, define this person as "weird", and then walk away.

But once interests are involved, things become a hundred times more complicated. Even a non-compulsory social relationship like a family is not so easy to break free of, not to mention more complicated disputes over interests.

Once you meet such a person, in the process of getting along with him, you will have to spend a lot of energy to understand him, and then you will inevitably be manipulated and consumed in the process.

Making yourself weird can be called the hedgehog tactic. Hedgehogs are not very strong animals, but compared to ostriches that bury their heads in the sand, at least they can breathe a sigh of relief before being eaten.

But unfortunately, most people can't even do this. Again, emotional self-control is mostly innate. Some people are just too emotional and can't hide their emotions, so they can only learn from their mistakes.

In most of the relationships between Superman and Batman, Batman is the more difficult one to understand. In order to explore Batman, Superman also spent a lot of energy.

Superman is not a person who lacks emotional self-control, but a person who is too curious. If you walk along the river too often, you will get your feet wet. If you walk on the road at night too much, you will always meet Batman.

"Don't kill" is Batman's principle and one of his criteria. Normally, he won't say to anyone, "You can't kill people because you are my friend." He will certainly not say, "If you kill someone, I will kick you out of the category of friends and become your enemy."

This standard is usually hidden, at least Superman would never think of it.

However, after Injustice Superman killed someone, Injustice Batman obviously lost control of his emotions. He exposed his own standards and turned "I don't like you because of this" into an established fact.

The moment the mysterious thing reveals its true face, all the illusory rumors will be broken. Uncertainty and insecurity will also be reduced to nothingness.

Once Unjust Superman is sure that everything is irreversible, he will no longer spend his energy on understanding Batman.

Needless to say, a Husky without a chariot can cause much damage.

Therefore, Charles does not dwell on whether killing is right or wrong, or rather, people at Marvel do not like to dwell on this.

As a master of psychology, Charles pointed out more directly and profoundly the only mistake Batman made - he did not maintain his strong position in the emotional relationship between the two and lost the initiative, which led to his failure to successfully restrain Superman and turned the situation into what it is now.

"He panicked." Diana pointed out incisively in front of the screen, "Obviously Superman's reaction was beyond his expectations. He couldn't understand Superman's emotions, just like one day we suddenly couldn't understand the addition problem of 1+1=2. It was really panicking."

"Old people are always wiser," Bruce commented. Then he looked at Clark and said, "But some people don't have such troubles. After he couldn't read my emotions, he didn't stop to try to understand, but chose to continue to push the plot."

"Oh my god, Bruce." Clark put his hands over his face and pushed his cheeks up, then said, "I'm so sorry. I swear I don't care about you...wait, you didn't mean that?"

"You just want me to focus on you, and only on you, and mess up everything else." Clark stared at Bruce and raised his voice, "I'll say it again! I only maintain normal and healthy interpersonal relationships. Lunatics stay away from me!"

"That's also my talent," Clark said. "My super brain helped me automatically block your damn fishing behavior. I should buy something delicious to celebrate."

"You want to use Clark as a fish, and you don't even think about whether your level is good enough." Diana couldn't help it, she said, "If Clark is really a fish, he might even drag your teacher Schiller into the water. How dare you think of fishing him out?"

"Not really." Bruce said, "I was a little sad at the time, but not to the point of being irritated. It's just that some people's indifferent attitude made me even sadder..."

Clark turned his head away with a guilty look, but soon turned back and said, "I noticed that something was wrong with you, but when I asked you what was wrong, you didn't tell me. I don't understand psychology, so I can only treat it as a normal madness."

Bruce shook his head helplessly and sighed, "You guys in Metropolis really have no artistic talent. It's a good thing I don't want to be Batman anymore..."

"If you're still Batman, get the hell out of my Metropolis," Lex said bluntly.

On the screen, Injustice Superman's expression was a little teasing. In his spiritual world, the blue-eyed young man pushed up his glasses, looked at the spirit of Injustice Superman tied to a chair next to him and said:

"I told you. He's more fragile than you think. Since you can't go back to the past, why not start a brand new future?"

There were no heat rays, no freezing breath, no verbal battles. The young man who was now in control of his body just said a few words and gave a look.

"Tell me what I should do."

Charles appeared behind the chair, turned around and paced lightly, then lowered his head to look at Injustice Superman.

"Never be more curious about him than he is about you. Never pay more attention to him than he pays attention to you. Once you are free, he will be tied up."

"I can help you." Charles' voice became more and more like the whisper of some devil. He said, "I can help you seal away the extra emotions. Without those things holding you back, you will be successful in everything you do."

The hand holding the handrail clenched. The past scenes appeared in the mind of the Unjust Superman. He was always angry and sad. He was venting his emotions, while Batman watched coldly.

"I just want to know if he can really remain indifferent forever." Injustice Superman slowly closed his eyes and said, "Do it."

When Charles' figure appeared in the room under Luther Manor, everyone was shocked.

"I sealed off a part of Superman's emotions," Charles said. "It allows him to remain calm when facing Batman."

Diana was a little surprised and said, "Then he... I mean, he can control Batman? The two of them..."

Charles shook his head and said, "No, human emotions cannot be sealed. The longer they are sealed, the more powerful they will be when they explode."

"When the pent-up emotions burst out, he will understand that ruling the earth is nothing but a pipe dream. The friendship of the past is more important than anything else, and naturally there will be no conflicts."

Charles looked at Bruce again.

"I heard that you and your partner also have some conflicts?"

Bruce and Clark hugged each other instantly, and Bruce's head even shook leaving an afterimage.

"No, absolutely not. We are good friends for life!"